(The following is the April 10 devotional from my Next Step Devotions book. Before reading it, I suggest you read John 4 and pay close attention to verses 1-27.)
Not everyone is a great conversationalist. Some are, while others struggle to engage anyone who is not a friend or acquaintance. How can Christians fulfill the task of proclaiming the good news to everyone when many seem intimidated by the social challenge?
Perhaps some pointers from Jesus’ example may help. His encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well is a master class in engaging someone in a gospel conversation. What did he do?
- He went to a place where a lost person would be.
- He initiated the conversation with someone who did not expect to be approached by one so different from her.
- He made intriguing comments that captured her attention, leading to her follow-up comments and questions.
- He talked about something he knew would interest her based on her current activity (drawing water from a well).
- He addressed the reality of her sin, pricking her conscience.
- He spoke truths about God and a proper relationship with him, contrary to what she had learned in her culture.
- He left no doubt as to who the Messiah was.
If you are hesitant to start gospel conversations – especially with strangers – consider some of Jesus’ tactics above. People’s favorite subject to talk about is usually themselves, so invite them to share about themselves by answering your questions. Find out who they are, what they do, and what they enjoy and believe. Show genuine interest. We should not do all the talking in a gospel conversation. God frequently opens doors, as he did with the Samaritan woman, to share the gospel in response to the other person’s comments and questions.
Next Step:
Identify a non-Christian with whom you wish to share the gospel. Think about their interests, experiences, etc. Craft some questions to ask them the next time you are with them in private. Pray for God’s guidance before and during the exchange, relying on him for wisdom.
