Leap Year Lesson #207: You Have the Right to Remain Silent (and the Capacity, If You Try)

In the movie Shrek 2, Shrek tells Donkey "You have the right to remain silent.  What you lack is the capacity."  I know several such donkeys. There are two very different contexts in which this thought comes to mind.  The first scenario may be in a meeting at work, in casual conversation with a group, …

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Leap Year Lesson #206: When Values Collide, Go With the Higher Purpose

I had to make a tough decision Friday - one I have struggled with for many months.  The details won't interest many others, I suspect, except those directly affected at my work.  The process and the lesson, however, should apply to more people. As the community manager for our company's internal social network, it is …

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Leap Year Lesson #205: Political Polarization is Destroying Us

The presidential election is over three months away and I am already completely sick of it all.  I hate the false accusations, the negative ads, the lies, the posturing, every attempt to make your candidate look perfect and the other candidate look like a complete idiot, and I hate the way it infiltrates daily conversation, …

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Leap Year Lesson #204: It’s Nice When You Can Do Well in a Crunch, But It’s Better When You Don’t Have To

I had a perfect opportunity today to focus on one important thing that has a deadline of today.  With no meetings at all on my calendar, I could focus on getting together a draft of a presentation that I was asked to draft by today.  No problem, I thought.  There is nothing else on my …

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Leap Year Lesson #203: Help Others Learn From Your Mistakes

We are eager to share our successes.  We feel good about them - even a little healthy pride, perhaps.  We want others to know what we've done well.  We like being lifted up as a model of best practices.  The accolades make us feel good and the lessons teach others something about how to succeed. …

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