Leap Year Lesson #317: Don’t Shoot the Messenger; You Might Miss the Message

Most of us don't like being the bearer of bad news.  On the contrary, we would rather be associated with the verse from the prophet Isaiah: "How lovely on the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news" (Isaiah 52:7) - a verse repeated by Paul in Romans 10:15.  The positive image brings …

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Leap Year Lesson #314: Be a Safe Place for Others

You've probably seen one of the yellow and black diamond "Safe Place" signs on businesses and other locations.  The one shown here is their latest logo.  It is the symbol for National Safe Place - a youth outreach organization that educates youth about threatening situations and seeks to provide safe shelters for youth in crisis.  …

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Leap Year Lesson #310: Don’t Expect Those With Different Values To Be Or Act Like You

I suspect that many of us prefer to live in a world where the majority of others agrees with us on significant matters.  Unless you're unusually driven by conflict and controversy, you have a strong affinity for those who are a lot like you.  That's understandable.  It's a fact of basic human nature even if …

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Leap Year Lesson #308: Don’t Just Sit There – Do Something

We've all heard the Edmund Burke quote (or a close variation of it) that "All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."  It's a reminder that we cannot stand on the sidelines and watch evil, immoral actions take place while we remain silent, or else we are complicit …

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Leap Year Lesson #296: Sometimes It Takes a Close Friend To Deliver a Hard Message

Imagine this scenario.  "Joe" has had regular conflicts in various matters with "Mary."  Their differences are no secret and such disagreements have surfaced periodically for years.  Now imagine that something true but very difficult for Mary to hear about herself needs to be said.  For the sake of this post, we'll say the hard message …

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